Why It’s Time to Stop Dressing Like It’s Still 2005

By your 40s, you’ve earned a more refined style,

than your college self might suggest. Think of your wardrobe as an announcement: are you proclaiming “mid-life crisis” or “seasoned professional”? It’s time to leave outdated trends behind. For example, cargo shorts have officially passed their expiration date, one style guide bluntly advises throwing them out as a mature man’s closet staple . Baggy and ultra skinny jeans are also off the table; instead choose a modern mid-slim fit without rips .

Likewise, some “young” wardrobe elements should stay young. Graphic tees, basketball shorts and hoodies are comfy, but using them as everyday wear sends the wrong message. In fact, a men’s style expert warns that mimicking a college look (cargo shorts, flip flops, sports jerseys and hoodies) will not fool anyone, instead it just looks “immature and silly” on older guys . The upgrade?

Swap cargo shorts for neat cotton chinos or classic cut shorts that hit just above the knee.

Trade flip flops for boat shoes or loafers when out casually.

Replace graphic tees with solid or subtly patterned polos, Henleys or button downs. These are just as easy but more put together.

If you still have jeans from your 20s, consider donating them. Good jeans for your 40s have a straight or slightly tapered cut in a medium or dark wash (no bleached out holes) . And finally, skip the early 2000s hairstyles and bulky sneakers. A modern haircut and a clean pair of shoes can make a huge difference. Embracing these updates shows maturity and confidence, you won’t look younger, but you’ll look right for your age.